I’ve been asked this over and over again, I will address it and move on. Did I think my husband was molesting out daughter? The police and attorneys told us that in many cases, children accuse someone of this crime because the someone who is molesting them, is someone closer to them, such as a family member.

No, I have never, ever thought that Phill was molesting his daughter.

Another question I get asked is why did Phill want a divorce? Why, after finding out about all Emma’s lies, was Phill so complicit in going along with Emma? Why would Phill not want to get to the bottom of whatever the problem was and save his family? Why did Phill not want to get to the truth? What kind of man lets his wife take the blame for something he knows she didn’t do? Was there another woman? Was Phill using Emma because he wanted a divorce, just like Emma was using Phill to cover up her lies?

As a matter of fact, an old girlfriend, whom I didn’t even know Phill had been in touch with for all the years of our marriage, showed up on his facebook as soon as the divorce was final. Coincidence?

I will tell you about her in my next post.